Maintaining humanity on the internet

Hi friends. I’m posting here an article written by Monica Lewinsky, published in Vanity Fair. My sister first sent it to me, and what my sister wrote in her email resonated with me:

I thought this article was very well written. I honestly haven’t thought much about Monica Lewinsky for many years. She’s just become a part of the 90s cultural canvas that served as the background for my life. Like Clark Howard’s voice, she’s just another name from my childhood. I obviously knew the story in broad strokes (some kind of affair, president got in trouble), but I didn’t understand the wider implications of the scandal at the time. It’s really interesting now to be able to read this, and with a feminist perspective, ask, “Where were her defenders?” I mean, she was only 20 years old at the time. I didn’t even realize that she was that young when the scandal broke. When I was a kid, 20 years old seemed like millions of years away. Now I realize how young that really is. But even though the relationship was consensual, the issue she really tries to combat is this culture of humiliation that has grown around our use of the internet. I can’t imagine going through what she went through, and becoming the butt of every joke. The parallels between her situation and Tyler Clementi’s are terrifying. It’s so easy to forget that at the other end of the line there is a human being with a life, with personality, and with feelings.

-Email from Mishy

By watching, reading, and re-posting shame-based stories (which can disguise themselves as jokes), we contribute to the public humiliation and shaming of a HUMAN BEING. The consequences of our online actions, even if they consist only of watching and reposting can be devastating. Use the internet with the consciousness that there is another human being at the other end of the screen–you interact with and have a real influence on a being, not just a screen.

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“Once air hits the brain, it ain’t ever the same”

Last week, Dr. Hanel consulted a patient on how to treat the patient’s aneurysms. He could opt for no surgery and monitor his aneurysms (not unreasonable given their size and location), have open surgery to clip the aneurysms, or have a neurointerventional radiology procedure aka coiling (minimally invasive, through the groin procedure). The patient said he definitely didn’t want to do the clipping procedure and Dr. Hanel replied, ‘Yes, I told you that option for full disclosure. You know as they say, once the air hits the brain, it ain’t ever the same.”

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Shadowing

Updates on last week’s shadowing: I was lucky enough to see an extracranial-intracranial bypass surgery. It was the last surgery on an already packed schedule. Dr. Mitchell performed the craniotomy whereby holes are made in the skull and bone flaps are opened. Dr. Hanel isolated the blood vessels, clamped the ends, and sliced them open before suturing the donor to the recipient vessel. Then he removed the clamps to allow blood to flow. They used infrared to check for any leaks in the vessel. Dr. Mitchell took care of closing the craniotomy. The video from the microscope was projected onto a 3D TV which two of the nurses, Nancy and Bobo, set up for me. I watched the entire surgery with 3D glasses in super HD. Incredible.

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Wedding, shadowing, and a crafternoon

I spent last weekend in State College, PA for Daria and Collin’s wedding. It was a small ceremony–only 42 guests total–but it was very nice. The wedding was held in Collin’s grandparent’s garden. I had a great time catching up with Jess and meeting Greg. There were two other Dukies, but I don’t particularly like either of them, so I mostly spent time with Jess, Greg, and whatever time I could with the lovely bride. Collin’s grandfather and I talked about diving, and he showed me pictures of some of his dives. There were two large portraits in their living room of Collin’s great-great-insert several more greats-grandmother and grandfather. This ancestral grandfather was one of the founding members of West Virginia during its split from VA during the Civil War. I think it is really cool to have this sort of history behind your family in the States.

Daria's bridesmaids, Alex, Daria, and Collin
Daria’s bridesmaids, Alex, Daria, and Collin

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